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Dads, do you realize what an important role you play in the lives of your children? According to fathers.com, an estimated 27 million children in America are fatherless. Statistics link fatherless children to higher rates of poverty, problems in school, teen pregnancy, substance abuse, violent crime, and depression. Whether you know it or not, you are one of the most influential people in your child's life. The following is a list to help you along on your journey.
Teach Your Children By Example. Albert Einstein once said, “Setting an example is not the main means of influencing others; it is the only means.” Young children model their behavior after what they see in the home so always be conscious of your actions.
Listen. Sometimes just listening can be more helpful than giving advice. This is especially true for older children. Before you become angry or critical, hear what they have to say and then ask if they would like you to bestow your fatherly wisdom upon them.
Get Involved. Be present in your children's lives as much as you possibly can. They may not always show it, but your involvement means a lot to them. It lets them know you care about them and what they are doing. For those fathers who cannot physically be there, a phone call to inquire about your child's day will always be appreciated.
Communicate. Talk to your children. Let them know that you are always there for them to question, confide in, or just to chat.
Be Affectionate. This is more difficult for some fathers than others, but it's important nonetheless. Children thrive off of your affection. It is a positive reinforcement and affirmation of your love.
Practice Patience. Patience is key when raising children. When they are young there will be endless questions and when they become teenagers they will constantly test you. Try to remain calm.
Always Encourage. Encourage your children as often as possible. Help them to try new activities and when you see they have taken an interest in something, be supportive and help them to pursue it.
Educate. Teach your children as much as you can and be open to learning from them as well. Just because they are young doesn't mean they can't teach you a thing or two.
Discipline. Children need boundaries. While it is important to be their friend you are still the parent and it is your job to teach them what is right and wrong. They will thank you for it when they are older.
Love. Most importantly love your children unconditionally. Tell them you love them everyday. Words can be very powerful so don't just assume that they know. Say it!
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